I have recently learned that when two people have a relationship that is close and so much more than just an attraction, time apart is hard (so much harder than you think it will be). Even if you are the one who choses the trip and created the distance it’s hard, and if you are… Continue reading You can unravel the me, but not the us.
I absolutely believe that I suffer from the condition ( not) commonly known as love blindness. They say that love is blind. I think that it probably is. The most wonderful thing about love and relationships is that they often cause us to abandon all reason and we abandon it for that intense, amazing emotion.… Continue reading Love blindness …
Can we exist in relationships without a label? Are we only someone’s girlfriend, wife, husband, boyfriend, fiance if they declare us as such to the general public? There are so many different types of relationship now. I like to think we spend our younger years trying out a few of the different ones and working… Continue reading What are we without a label ?
Now hold up, before we all get into the ins and outs of what type of desire i am talking about here. I am not just talking about desire in a physical sense. You see, what I think, is that love is complex and tricky because it is driven by our desires. And there are… Continue reading Is all love driven by desire?
I don’t make resolutions, instead I have decided this is the year. I am on a one women mission to ramp up the romance. It was no coincidence that my most popular post last year was ‘is romance dead‘ we are all worried about it! We all want more love and loveliness in our lives.… Continue reading 2017 – Ramping up the romance
Why is it, in relationships it’s like one extreme or another. For example, you either have love. Or you don’t. You can try and hide from it, you can use different expression of hope and mutual adoration. But essentially, it’s either love or it’s not. Or is it? I have learned to know, this is a… Continue reading It’s this or that. But never both. (relationships)
I read a post earlier today about life pushing and pulling in a range of different directions. It seems to me that there are a million tiny things that always need attention. We have to do our best to juggle them. In my experience, the success of this juggling varies significantly over time and circumstance.… Continue reading My badly balanced act