What is more fantastic about a relationship than the stripping back? When you get to be the person that unzips and finds the real individual? Underneath all the pomp and circumstance, underneath the public mask, underneath the everything. Finding the base of a person laid bare to be loved. Understanding all the tiny things that… Continue reading Go get yourself (Love) unzipped
Ever begged someone not to go and they went anyway? I don’t mean forever, just for the evening or for a trip or for a break. But somewhere you wanted to go with them too, or you just didn’t want to be without them for an extended period of time. I did. He went anyway,… Continue reading And still I wait ..
Can we exist in relationships without a label? Are we only someone’s girlfriend, wife, husband, boyfriend, fiance if they declare us as such to the general public? There are so many different types of relationship now. I like to think we spend our younger years trying out a few of the different ones and working… Continue reading What are we without a label ?
When we think about our past relationships are we actually remembering the real thing? Are we basing all expectations of future relationships on a relationship that actually wasn’t at all like what our mind has let us remember? I have recently had some communication with the love without fear guy. ( Check out my post… Continue reading Setting the relationship record straight?
Now hold up, before we all get into the ins and outs of what type of desire i am talking about here. I am not just talking about desire in a physical sense. You see, what I think, is that love is complex and tricky because it is driven by our desires. And there are… Continue reading Is all love driven by desire?
I’ve been having a bit of a rough time. You know me, I am a massive advocate of love. I want everyone to have more love in their lives, I feel like it fixes things and makes things glitter. But I have also never underestimated the power of love to destroy and destruct and to… Continue reading What is the language of your relationship? (are you both speaking it?)
I have been quite poorly for the past few weeks and have been home from work. I found myself watching a huge amount of Catfished, you know the show on MTV where Nev and Max help out people who think they are being deceived by people they have met on line? This show really got… Continue reading Online Love expectations