People don’t all behave the same….. This is an important lesson in love and life and I have been learning the hard way recently. Some of my readers might remember way way back when I wrote a post about being left alone in the dark ( Ever been left crying alone in the dark?), well,… Continue reading If only we were all the same ……..
I read a post earlier today about life pushing and pulling in a range of different directions. It seems to me that there are a million tiny things that always need attention. We have to do our best to juggle them. In my experience, the success of this juggling varies significantly over time and circumstance.… Continue reading My badly balanced act
The trouble with trust is that it is often so easily broken. Once it is, it is almost impossible to get it back. It might just be a one time thing, it might have been broken with the kindest of intentions, but once the damage is done, that is when doubt creeps in. Once that doubt… Continue reading Putting your trust in trust…
‘I don’t want to make you any promises when I don’t know what is going to happen’ We’ve all heard this line. It is always said with a good intention. But for some reason it absolutely has the ability to make me a little crazy. It’s because I hate the rational, reasonable approach to relationships.… Continue reading Embracing the what if
A sudden, dramatic, and important discovery or development? I think I might have had one of these today. Though I am not sure it was actually sudden, only the realisation of it was. The issue has been there for quite sometime. But I stupidly ignored it, I parked it in ‘insignificant’ I figured I could… Continue reading I’m just not enough ( to love)
Silence. I hate silence. More than that, I hate the way that silence is used as a weapon in relationships. There is nothing more painful or hurtful in my experience. I don’t know when things get so bad that there is absolutely nothing to say. Like, all of the good stuff disappears in an instant… Continue reading It’s a weapon