So I’ve decided this will be my last blog post here on escaping perfection. When I started this blog, it was a place for me to explore my feelings and write things down I couldn’t say out loud. It really turned into somewhere where I wrote about HIM. Sometimes I talked about love and relationships… Continue reading It’s time to say goodbye
I recently finished reading a fantastic book called SUMO, which I highly recommend to everyone. The focus is on how to ‘shut up and move on’ which is of great benefit in both personal and professional situations. Within it he describes how we all have period of ‘hippo time’ in our lives where it is… Continue reading Stuck firm in hippo time
What has amazed me these past few weeks is the utter chaos he has caused and the extent to which he has managed to hurt and destroy people. I have kept out of the public arguments and naming and shaming, but the damage he has caused is widespread and significant. What’s more, in relation to… Continue reading The aftermath (P3)
I have come to realise a lot of things during the past couple of weeks. Firstly, I have come to accept that I will never, ever, ever understand why he did it, or how he could behave in that way for such a long period of time. I don’t think he will ever know either,… Continue reading Broken & Gaslighted (P2)
This is honestly one of the hardest posts I’ve ever written and because it’s all so raw and new, I’m going to tell you about what happened now and then next week I’ll tell you how I feel about it. Because I can’t process it all enough at the moment to even begin to describe… Continue reading Broken & Gaslighted (P 1)
I am really really struggling at the moment to understand why people lie so much. I am not a terrifying human, nothing terribly bad is going to happen if you tell me the truth. However if you lie, especially about stupid stuff for absolutely no reason then I am going to be incredibly confused and… Continue reading It’s all lies lies lies lies lies
I have recently found myself on the brink of what could be a great opportunity. It’s a business one. It would require some investment and a lot of hard work BUT it could be the game changer, it could reduce my 40 hour working week, offer me some flexibility in my routine, it will increase… Continue reading Investing in ourselves or others?