Have you ever wanted something for a really long time because you think that it will solve all your problems but then when it happens there is no time to be relieved because actually the reality of it is utterly terrifying? It reminds me of the phrase ‘be careful what you wish for’ It is… Continue reading In life, be careful what you wish for
Are relationships the ultimate in collaboration? I think they might just be. I started to think about couples who have really nailed it. There is loads of them. The Brit in me always defaults to The Queen and Prince Philip, he has recently just stepped down from official royal duties at the grand aged of 96,… Continue reading Relationships – the ultimate collaboration?
Because, like, not every love lasts. In fact the majority of them combust, or fizzle into nothing, few people nowadays find a love that lasts a lifetime ( I am insanely jealous of those ) . You may have some great memories and those people may leave a legacy but the love stops. It’s a… Continue reading Is some love only supposed to be temporary?
Ever begged someone not to go and they went anyway? I don’t mean forever, just for the evening or for a trip or for a break. But somewhere you wanted to go with them too, or you just didn’t want to be without them for an extended period of time. I did. He went anyway,… Continue reading And still I wait ..
Can we exist in relationships without a label? Are we only someone’s girlfriend, wife, husband, boyfriend, fiance if they declare us as such to the general public? There are so many different types of relationship now. I like to think we spend our younger years trying out a few of the different ones and working… Continue reading What are we without a label ?
When we think about our past relationships are we actually remembering the real thing? Are we basing all expectations of future relationships on a relationship that actually wasn’t at all like what our mind has let us remember? I have recently had some communication with the love without fear guy. ( Check out my post… Continue reading Setting the relationship record straight?
Now hold up, before we all get into the ins and outs of what type of desire i am talking about here. I am not just talking about desire in a physical sense. You see, what I think, is that love is complex and tricky because it is driven by our desires. And there are… Continue reading Is all love driven by desire?