I have often wondered why the universe seems to have such a problem with me, like what did I do in a previous life to annoy it so much that I deserve all this recent nonsense in payback? It must have been something really, really terrible. It seems, that in every situation where there could… Continue reading The universe & me
Is it human nature to always think that the grass is greener? Are we actually all essentially just about the thrill of the chase? Do we all really just want what we don’t have, but some of us are able to suppress these feelings and feel happy and content with our lot? Whilst others go… Continue reading Is the grass greener?
I have come to realise a lot of things during the past couple of weeks. Firstly, I have come to accept that I will never, ever, ever understand why he did it, or how he could behave in that way for such a long period of time. I don’t think he will ever know either,… Continue reading Broken & Gaslighted (P2)
So, I have realised , For me, the fundamental flaw in internet dating is being forced to set ‘the search criteria’. Age range , height,kids / no kids, want kids / don’t want kids, dogs / cats, wine / no wine (WHAT?!) and so it goes on. Some of these choices determine which profiles you… Continue reading The flaws of the search criteria
They say that timing is everything In life and in my experience this is actually one of those things that is absolutely true. It adds a whole new dimension to looking for a partner because not only do you have to find someone you are attracted to, get on well with, respect and enjoy being… Continue reading Timing is everything
Who else fancies a complete Lifestyle overhaul? I am desperate to make changes to improve my finances and my circumstances and my emotional wellbeing. I want to wake up everyday with a fresh enthusiasm, some drive and ambition. I want to WANT to better myself. To make everyday a positive experience Lately the only thing… Continue reading Lifestyle Overhaul? – yes please!
I have recently found myself on the brink of what could be a great opportunity. It’s a business one. It would require some investment and a lot of hard work BUT it could be the game changer, it could reduce my 40 hour working week, offer me some flexibility in my routine, it will increase… Continue reading Investing in ourselves or others?
I spend a lot of my time missing someone. But I realised today that actually until this year I had been missing myself. I think we underestimate the importance of respecting ourselves and giving ourselves the time and attention we deserve. Loads of things have changed over the last 12 months, i’ll do a round… Continue reading The only thing missing is me
Thanks so much to Bexoxo for the nomination – I absolutely love her blog, please pop by and check it out. . The Rules: Put the award logo on your blog Answer 7 questions asked by the person who nominated you Thank the person who nominated you Nominate any number of bloggers you like, by… Continue reading Real neat blog award – thank you
The trouble with trust is that it is often so easily broken. Once it is, it is almost impossible to get it back. It might just be a one time thing, it might have been broken with the kindest of intentions, but once the damage is done, that is when doubt creeps in. Once that doubt… Continue reading Putting your trust in trust…