I spend a lot of my time missing someone. But I realised today that actually until this year I had been missing myself. I think we underestimate the importance of respecting ourselves and giving ourselves the time and attention we deserve. Loads of things have changed over the last 12 months, i’ll do a round… Continue reading The only thing missing is me
Why is it, in relationships it’s like one extreme or another. For example, you either have love. Or you don’t. You can try and hide from it, you can use different expression of hope and mutual adoration. But essentially, it’s either love or it’s not. Or is it? I have learned to know, this is a… Continue reading It’s this or that. But never both. (relationships)
I read a post earlier today about life pushing and pulling in a range of different directions. It seems to me that there are a million tiny things that always need attention. We have to do our best to juggle them. In my experience, the success of this juggling varies significantly over time and circumstance.… Continue reading My badly balanced act
The trouble with trust is that it is often so easily broken. Once it is, it is almost impossible to get it back. It might just be a one time thing, it might have been broken with the kindest of intentions, but once the damage is done, that is when doubt creeps in. Once that doubt… Continue reading Putting your trust in trust…
‘I don’t want to make you any promises when I don’t know what is going to happen’ We’ve all heard this line. It is always said with a good intention. But for some reason it absolutely has the ability to make me a little crazy. It’s because I hate the rational, reasonable approach to relationships.… Continue reading Embracing the what if
A sudden, dramatic, and important discovery or development? I think I might have had one of these today. Though I am not sure it was actually sudden, only the realisation of it was. The issue has been there for quite sometime. But I stupidly ignored it, I parked it in ‘insignificant’ I figured I could… Continue reading I’m just not enough ( to love)
I have a dilemma I feel slightly like a fraud now. Because now I am much less Lifehostage32 and much more Lifehostage33. But I am not going to change my name or anything, I am happy here as I am. Today I am going to tell you about the last 12 months. So for all you… Continue reading Lifehostage 32 is now 33…… lessons learned.