‘I don’t want to make you any promises when I don’t know what is going to happen’ We’ve all heard this line. It is always said with a good intention. But for some reason it absolutely has the ability to make me a little crazy. It’s because I hate the rational, reasonable approach to relationships.… Continue reading Embracing the what if
A sudden, dramatic, and important discovery or development? I think I might have had one of these today. Though I am not sure it was actually sudden, only the realisation of it was. The issue has been there for quite sometime. But I stupidly ignored it, I parked it in ‘insignificant’ I figured I could… Continue reading I’m just not enough ( to love)
Silence. I hate silence. More than that, I hate the way that silence is used as a weapon in relationships. There is nothing more painful or hurtful in my experience. I don’t know when things get so bad that there is absolutely nothing to say. Like, all of the good stuff disappears in an instant… Continue reading It’s a weapon
I am one of those people who constantly considers others, regardless of the detriment to my life. This is especially true in my relationships. I can’t help myself for always thinking, what would they like, and getting it , what do they need? And providing it. I always want to go the extra mile to… Continue reading Emotional laziness or am I just too much?