This is a tricky one right? I have this going on in two areas of my life at the moment and both instances are difficult and annoying in their own special way. Let’s talk about Him first. Not having him around me as my friend has been a million times harder than saying goodbye to… Continue reading Getting back into the friendzone
So, I have realised , For me, the fundamental flaw in internet dating is being forced to set ‘the search criteria’. Age range , height,kids / no kids, want kids / don’t want kids, dogs / cats, wine / no wine (WHAT?!) and so it goes on. Some of these choices determine which profiles you… Continue reading The flaws of the search criteria
I am back home now after a totally incredible week in the Caribbean. I am feeling so much more like my old self, I am smiling more and less anxious and generally just all round better. I thoroughly encourage everyone to take some time out of life when life get tough. Things I learned in… Continue reading Back to Reality
I am writing this from the Caribbean, it got to the point a couple of weeks ago when I just couldn’t stand to be at home anymore. To many things and people and reminders, too much chaos and distraction. Far too much disappointment. So here I am, hoping to feel instantly better, having faith that… Continue reading Running away
This is the question I have been asking myself repeatedly for the last few weeks, maybe months actually, in one way or another. I made a mistake this week. It wasn’t malicious or intentional, I just screwed up. But the consequences have really really really sucked. I feel as bad as I did on day… Continue reading What was it all for?
They say that timing is everything In life and in my experience this is actually one of those things that is absolutely true. It adds a whole new dimension to looking for a partner because not only do you have to find someone you are attracted to, get on well with, respect and enjoy being… Continue reading Timing is everything
It turns out that it’s not because I miss him or still want to be with him that I continue to feel so shitty. Which frankly is a relief. When discussing my sadness and anxiety with my counsellor recently, we made a significant breakthrough. It’s not the loss of his love that keeps me awake at night ( it’s… Continue reading The truth about secrets and lies